Managing Frustration & Unmet Goals as a Writer
One is essential but one will only hold you back.
“I have forced myself to begin writing when I’ve been utterly exhausted, when I’ve felt my soul as thin as a playing card…and somehow the activity of writing changes everything.”
― Joyce Carol Oates
When I’m really deep in practicing self-reflection with writing, I really can’t imagine not having a creative outlet. Whether it’s art, music, writing, or something else where you’re creating — just that act of mindfully bringing something into existence goes so far and means so much.
I’ve been writing since I was a child. I’ve been writing for a fearsome 17 years now, though it seems impossible that I am old enough to say such large numbers.
There are the obvious piece of advice on this topic; set realistic goals, don’t overextend yourself, and so on. These are all valid and helpful, but there are also those pesky times when we end up feeling burnout and frustrated with unmet goals anyway. Or worse, we do set realistic goals and life gets in the way, making them impossible to meet.
The fatigue of writing and feeling stuck can be crippling.
That’s the need to create versus the frustrating reality of being a creator. I need…
